Yeah, we know it?s a bit daunting to be right there, staring into the screen, going back and forth with that backspace button. This happens with most of us, let the experts give you some tips! Read and learn?
Remember you are flirting just like you would in real life. Say the right things and in the good context.
1. Focus on unique, specific compliments
Try not to make the conversation so obviously wrapped around the ?dating?, have a normal friendly conversation. Pick one thing on their profile and make fun of him/her, (in a light-hearted way). It creates instant intimacy and can reveal your charm. Apologies immediately if he/she is offended! A sincere apology can also tell that you are sentimental and care about others emotions.
2. Focus on unique, specific compliments
Don?t hesitate to flatter your online crush. Talk about what he/she has on their profile. Talk about their hair, eyes, tattoo? -anything that makes them feel you?ve had a pit stop at their profile before approaching. Knowing someone admires your traits is making him/her smile in a real and that means, you?ve opened a door, to friendship maybe, but that?s the first step.
3. Avoid Yes/No questions
Don?t be a conversation killer! Generic questions get bland answers and online flirting is not meant to be bland. Keep the conversation exciting, reveal yourself and try to know about the person by asking specific questions, like- How do you like EDM? Following text could be- I?m going to this concert and my friend just chickened out, would you like to join?
4. Don?t over do texting, Meet!
Texting for too long can put out the interest in meeting the person in actual. Online Dating apps like Sclubber, also provide Video Chat to bring you closer, make use of technology to take your online date to reality sooner. You already start getting bored of the conversations and honestly know a little too much to kill the excitement.
5. Talk about personality
As much as you talk about their physical features, nothing works like compliments about their happening personality. Repeat your compliment, to make an echo.
6. Exchange photos!
Nope, not giving you ?Ideas? but yeah, showing him/her what you and your life looks like in real, makes them feel a part of your life. A simple picture of your dog or your messy study room will be fine too.
7. Use Interesting words
Data says, Messages that use the word adorable get 64% more responses. Amuse them with words to make them feel special about the conversations.
8. Be upfront and clear
It?s a dating platform and ain?t nobody is a kid no more. Be bold and make a date as soon as you get interested. Or, if you?d rather let the other person initiate, say: ?Just so you know, if you ask me out I?ll say yes.? Being clear about your intentions is the first step towards getting what you want.
Team Sclubber swears by these surefire flirting tips to flatter your probable date but here?s the most important tips of them all- Just trust your intuition and be real, flirting tips can help you appear all cool on an online dating app but c?mon, you?ve got to impress him/her in real!