10 Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Misses You and Wants You Back

10 Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Misses You and Wants You Back

Are you wondering how to find out if your ex-girlfriend misses you?

Image for postPhoto by Christopher Campbell on Unsplash

Men and women have very different ways of showing their love and care. They also have a different way of showing that they are missing someone they love.

Women may show signs rather than expressing their feelings in words. A straight-forward woman will express her thoughts clearly, but more often than not, it doesn?t happen that way.

She will likely not be upfront about it, especially if you have broken up. She may show you mixed signs and drop hints for you to figure it out yourself.

When she is not clear about her feelings for you, it can be very frustrating. One moment you might feel that she is missing you and, a moment later you feel that she is over you. Either way, you may see signs your ex-girlfriend misses you.

You will have to make the effort of reading the signs if you want her back in your life. It might break your heart to see her with someone else, but it could be just a sign that she is just trying to make you jealous.

Want to find out if your ex-girlfriend misses you?

Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Misses You

We have compiled some signs you can look out for to help you understand your ex-girlfriend?s behavior.

1. She Stalks You on Social Media

Image for postImage via Pixabay

Your ex-girlfriend is missing you if she is stalking your social media account. She may like your pictures and even comment on them.

She wants to know what is going on in your life. She is not a part of it anymore and she misses you. She wonders if you have found some new or are going on dates.

These questions are bothering her and, all she can do right now is to find out what?s going on with you through your social media accounts.

She may check your previous posts to see whether you have deleted your old photos together. She will assume that you have moved on if you deleted old photos and in case you haven?t, that may give her hope of starting the relationship again.

This is a sign that your ex-girlfriend misses you and, all she can do right now is to see the old pictures and remember the good times together.

2. She Tries to Make You Jealous

Another one of the biggest signs that your ex-girlfriend misses you is that she will try to make you jealous. She will try everything to get a reaction from you.

She may hang out with her guy friends and post it on social media. She may go on dates with random guys. She might even go out with someone you know just to make you angry.

She will try to show you that she is not missing you, but in reality, she misses you a lot. She is craving your attention but doesn?t know how to show you. That is why she is resorting to such methods to grab your attention.

Your ex-girlfriend thinks that if you see her with someone, then you will try to get back with her. This is a sign that your ex-girlfriend misses you and is hoping that you are missing her as well.

3. She Tries to Keep in Touch

Image for postImage via Pixabay

You broke up, but your ex-girlfriend still keeps in touch? That?s a big sign your ex-girlfriend misses you.

She may call you or message you to ask how you are doing. She will show concern about your health and wish you all the best before any exam or important meeting.

Your ex-girlfriend will find excuses to talk to you. She will ask for her stuff back or will try returning yours.

But when she meets you, she will forget the stuff and will set another date to meet you. Don?t worry, the breakup has not made her forgetful.

All of these are signs your ex-girlfriend misses you and is trying to give you a hint so that you take the initiative of getting back together. So if your ex-girlfriend is still calling or messaging you, you know what to do about it.

4. She Will Find Herself a Rebound

Emotionally, your ex-girlfriend is all over the place and, she doesn?t know how to process her break up. She will go on blind dates, have a passing affair, or do something to make you jealous.

She will start dating again, and she will not put much thought into it. She will not see if the guy is right for her because she is not looking for commitment. She just wants to go out with someone to forget about you and probably to make you jealous as well.

You may also see similarities between you and her rebound. He may look and/or behave like you. This again is one of the biggest signs your ex-girlfriend misses you.

5. She Will Talk to Your Friends

Image for postImage via Pixabay

Does your ex-girlfriend talk to your friends in the hope that they will tell her about you? Is she still friends with them? Does she bring you up either directly or slyly every time she talks to them?

She likely wants to know about your emotional state. She may inquire about your love life. She wants to know if you are seeing someone.

She may regularly keep in touch and hang out with your friends. This is the only way for her to know all about you.

Had she moved on, she would delete your friends? contacts from her phone, but if she doesn?t, it could be a sign your ex-girlfriend misses you.

6. She Will Keep in Touch with Your Family

Does your ex-girlfriend stay in touch with your family? She may call them and ask about their well-being. She may try not to bring you up, but perhaps try to make sure that they still like her.

She may be hopeful that one day, you will patch things up so she wants to stay on your family?s good side.

If you are close to your family, then she knows that this is the way to win you back. Your family may remember her fondly and try to talk you into getting back together.

This is a sign that your ex-girlfriend misses you a lot.

7. She Will Flirt with You

Does your ex-girlfriend keep in touch with you and send you flirty messages? This is a clear sign that she misses you.

She may call or message you to compliment you. She may send you cute little forwards that are all about love and relationships.

She may even send you a message every day. It can get a little annoying, but this is her way of showing that she misses you.

If she is a shy type of girl, but she is still taking the initiative and sending you flirty messages, then take it from us, it?s a clear sign your ex-girlfriend misses you.

It takes determination to take the first step.

8. She Will Find Excuses to Fight

Image for postImage via Pixabay

It?s possible that your ex-girlfriend misses you, but she doesn?t know how to show it to you.

She may fight with you for no reason. She may bring up old issues and start accusing you of being insensitive or immature.

She will be unreasonable and angry for no reason. You will get random angry texts or call and, you will not be able to figure out what you did wrong.

She is just craving for your attention. You both have broken up and, she misses you, but she doesn?t know how to get back together. She wants you to give her attention. This is a desperate cry for love from her side. Don?t ignore this sign your ex-girlfriend misses you.

9. She Will Talk About You with Everyone

If your ex-girlfriend talks about you with everyone, it?s a sign she misses you. She may either talk badly about you or will remember you fondly.

In the first case, she will bad-mouth you with all your and her friends, but the moment they agree with her, she will start defending you. It is a classic sign that she is still into you and misses you.

She just wants to vent her anger. She doesn?t mean anything she says. And she will probably say yes to getting back together the moment you apologize to her.

In the second case, she will never bad-mouth you. She will remember you fondly and will talk about the happy memories. She will tell all your friends and her friends how much she misses you and wants to get back together.

So if she is talking about you, then it is a sign your ex-girlfriend misses you.

10. She Will Get Jealous

Image for postImage via Pixabay

She will stalk you online and will keep in touch with your friends and, the moment she knows you are dating another girl, she will get jealous. And she will make sure that you know it.

She will either convey the message to your friends or will send you a sarcastic message or two herself.

Your ex-girlfriend will not like the fact that you are seeing someone new. She will compare herself to your new date and mock your new choice.

She will not be happy for you and will try to make you feel bad by telling you that you have made a bad choice.

If she reacts so venomously towards you dating, then it is a sign that your ex-girlfriend misses you.


You broke up with your girlfriend, but now you want to get back together with her. You keep wondering if she misses you and don?t know how to figure out the answer

You can?t read your ex-girlfriend?s mind, but you can read the signs she shows you. If she also feels the same way, then she might not say it directly, but she will show it through her actions.

We can only point out the signs for you, but you will have to figure it out all by yourself.

If your ex-girlfriend is showing all these signs, then it?s possible she is still in love with you and misses you. Now it?s up to you what will you do next.

We hope that we were able to help you recognize the signs your ex-girlfriend misses you. If you want to know more, or have any questions then leave your comments below. We will definitely get back to you.


No Responses

Write a response