I Was a Phone Sex Operator, Here Are My Confessions

I Was a Phone Sex Operator, Here Are My Confessions

From lonely housewives to calls you?d expect, phone sex work is intriguing.

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When I think of phone sex operators, I can?t help but think of an episode of Beavis and Butthead. In 1?900-BEAVIS, the boys are watching TV, as usual, and surf until they come across an infomercial for a phone sex line.

Excited at the prospect of talking to a girl who will actually talk back, they call the number, to the tune of $9.99 per minute. A woman answers immediately, with a sultry sexy voice. They giggle and behave accordingly, and ask her to put the phone on her butt.

If you?ve ever watched Beavis and Butthead, none of this will surprise you. I?m sure you can hear their trademark laughs as you?re reading this.

Turns out, the phone sex operator isn?t sexy at all. In fact, it?s their bus driver. Known only as Redneck Lady throughout the show, she?s shown in vignette with her young son running around while she?s answering calls.

Not who you want to picture while you?re doing your phone sex business.

Many moons ago, I contracted to work for a company, Bedtime Bunnies, as a phone sex operator. A quick search tells me they are still in business.

One of the first things you do when you?re hired, after an extensive phone interview, is choose your model. The company owns packages of stock photos for their operators to use so they?re not using their own photos. You do have the option of uploading your own photos, but most girls don?t.

This was my first time pretending to be someone I wasn?t online.

I have a background in theater, so it wasn?t a stretch to act. It?s quite fun and easier online than in person. I created a back story for my character on the site based on the model photos I chose, including a name.

I was Kitty, a smoking hot redhead.

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The guy I was seeing at the time even got in on the fun. The company had a chat room where guys could come in and chat with the operators for free. Our job was to convince them to call in, where they got the first two minutes free, then it reverted over to a paid service.

My guy friend would log in to the site as if he were a paying customer and go ?private? with me. This made the guys in chat think I was popular, so they also wanted phone time with me. He always came back to chat and talked about how much fun he had on the phone with me.

It worked out pretty well having a wing man.

Phone calls were routed to your cellular phone, but you still needed to be at home. It?s a tad bit awkward being in public and answering a phone sex call.

You set your own hours. I tried to be available during the day, while my kids were in school and daycare, then again late night once they were in bed. Surprisingly, I got the majority of my calls during the day.

I learned later, when I was a booking agent for an escort agency, a lot of gentlemen make themselves available for their alternative fun during the day.

Similar to escorting, I found a lot of my calls were from men who were lonely and just wanted someone to talk to. Some were older gentlemen who were alone all the time. Others were younger men who were also alone and needed a friend.

I also got housewives who needed a friendly ear who wouldn?t judge.

One of my favorite calls was from a stay at home mom. She became a regular caller when her infant would go down for their daily nap. After giving birth, she found her husband was not interested in sex with her any longer.

Her body had changed and he was having difficulty separating the mother and the woman.

She, however, was still a woman with needs, so she turned to a phone sex operator to help her get off.

We talked about intimacy and touch. She ran a hot bath with oils and scents and soaked while I told her how beautiful her full and sensual body was. How I couldn?t keep my hands off her engorged breasts. I begged to suckle at her nipples, slipping my hands further down her supple body.

Gently licking and lapping at her nipples, making my way down her tummy, using my tongue as a guide. Parting her thighs, asking permission to drink from her fountain of life.

Rarely did I get any further before she exploded in orgasm.

It?s okay, I did too.

I didn?t always touch myself while talking to clients on the phone. Most thought I did, but that was part of the act. But there were times when I got into the story I was telling and couldn?t help myself.

There were also times I dropped calls because the story was one I refused to tell.

Occasionally we would receive calls from men who wanted age play.

Age play in and of itself is not an issue. It?s similar to the Daddy Dom/little dynamic, which I understand and have no issue with, when handled properly.

However, there?s a line, and some clients tried crossing that line regularly.

One such client called in and asked for me. I have a sweet sounding voice and did well with clients who liked age play. Apparently, I was perfect for the scenario he wanted.

The scene he claimed to want to enact was a Daddy Dom/brat scenario. He paid upfront for a 30 minute call.

We were about 15 minutes into the call when it took a nasty turn. He began calling me by a different name. It became abundantly clear he was reliving something he actually did.

There are times you just know something is wrong. I ended the call and messaged the company, explaining my thoughts. My boss told me not to worry, she would replay the call, as they were all recorded and give me her thoughts.

She did some research and made calls to local law enforcement and child protective services.

It turns out, this man was on the sex offender registry. He had already been convicted of distributing child pornography and was currently being investigated for crimes against a child.

I don?t know what happened after that, but I have a feeling our call to local law enforcement sped up that investigation. I hope the child involved was placed somewhere safe.

Luckily, the majority of the calls I took didn?t give me nightmares.

I was a phone sex operator for about a year before I moved on to other opportunities. It?s something I learned a lot doing and it opened my mind to work in the sex industry.

And I still think of Beavis and Butthead anytime I talk about it.

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Demeter deLune is a writer forged in the fires of desire. If you love reading her naughty tales of love and lust, sign up for her email list.

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