How I’m Learning to Deep-Throat

How I’m Learning to Deep-Throat

The operative word is learning. I?m not all the way there yet.

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I?m learning to deep-throat. Well, I?m trying to learn. I?d like to learn because it looks hot.

I get incredibly turned on watching clips of some of my favorite porn stars take the entire length of a man?s hard penis deep into their mouths.

They don?t just suck on these cocks ? they inhale them. They suck in a guy?s penis until their lips touch its base.

It appears like these women are literally swallowing a flesh sword. The tip of the guys? penises are grazing their uvulas.

But how? How do these women do it without choking?

I love to feel a man?s hard dick filling my mouth. I love to sense the tip of his cock edging toward the back of my throat.

The problem is, I can only take his penis so far into my mouth before I gag.

Yes, it?s explosive to watch a woman deep-throat a man. It?s also arousing to feel a penis fill my mouth.

But I can?t seem to take it in my mouth to the hilt. I can?t accept a penis against the back of my throat.

So I ask, how did these women learn?

Desensitize your gag reflex.

According to what I?ve read, learning to desensitize your gag reflex is the first step to successfully deep-throating a man?s hard penis.

A woman has to slowly build up her tolerance to having her gag reflex stimulated. The only way to build up that tolerance is to actually make yourself gag a little.

I know this sounds disturbing, and I?m not advocating that every woman learn how to deep-throat.

A woman should never set about to learn only because her partner wants her to either. And no man should ever pressure a woman.

A woman should only learn because she wants to.

It?s also important to give yourself time.

Every article I read about learning to deep-throat said it doesn?t happen overnight. I even read that a woman?s gag reflex may never become less sensitive.

I?m not ready to give up trying though. I?m still trying to master this technique.

Practice makes perfect.

If the trick is training your gag reflex, then I?ve been practicing quite a lot.

I?ve been practicing during my daily masturbation sessions. While I hold the vibrator to my clit with one hand, I slowly insert a penis-shaped dildo into my mouth with the other.

I prefer practicing while I?m masturbating because the more turned on I get, the more I want that cock touching the back of my throat.

I?ve also been practicing with one of my lovers. He lies on the bed, and I suck his cock, pushing my mouth down on his penis as far as I can.

When a cock is so close to the back of my throat, breathing is tricky. One tip I?ve read is to stick out my tongue while I attempt to deep-throat. Apparently doing so allows air in while a man?s penis is in my mouth.

I?ve also read to inhale as I slide him out.

Continuing to breathe properly while deep-throating is important because it helps a woman relax more.

I?ve been imagining myself doing yoga while I deep-throat ? deep breaths in and out while I take him in deep.

Your gag reflex is natural.

With all this practicing, I?m finding that I am indeed building up a tolerance to having my gag reflex stimulated at least a little. I?m definitely more comfortable with all the sensations involved than I was when I first started.

For the record, we have a gag reflex for a reason ? to keep us from choking. Therefore it?s perfectly natural to gag a little when anything gets that close to the back of our throats.

I?ve read that humming while you deep-throat is also helpful, so I?ve been humming a little song each time I practice with my lover.

The best position for deep-throating.

Though I often practice deep-throating while my guy lies on his back, me sucking him from above, everything I?ve been reading lately argues against using that position.

Supposedly when you suck your man?s penis from above like I?ve been doing, my mouth and throat aren?t aligned.

Therefore, the best position to achieve that mouth-throat alignment is for the woman to lie on her back on the bed, her head hanging off the edge.

My lover and I tried this the other night. My guy knelt beside me on the floor and inserted his penis into my mouth. He didn?t just start fucking my face though. I made sure I was the one controlling the blowjob.

I was the one who directed when his penis could plunge into my mouth and how deep it went.

I must report that all the experts are right. It was the deepest I?ve ever been able to take his penis.

The sensation was electric. I felt so close to my lover.

To me, that?s the real purpose behind deep-throating. Not only is it a means to arouse a woman and to make a man feel amazing, it?s supposed to make two lovers feel closer.

Of course, I?m still not able to take my lover?s hard penis all the way to the back of my throat, but I?m getting closer to mastering this.

All this practicing is also incredibly hot. I get so turned on that afterward I need to be fucked.

Honestly, it?s enough to feel so excited trying.

I?ll let you know how I progress. Fingers crossed.

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