We all seem to know the crazy things about the reverse cowgirl position but don?t know the pros and cons?
Have you heard nothing but stories and raves about how great reverse cowgirl feels from your girlfriends, only to be disappointed by the boring reality?.
The bottom line? If it doesn?t feel good, you?re definitely not doing it right!
We?re here with many pros and cons on how to do the reverse cowgirl right!
The reverse cowgirl ? Getting into position
If you?re wondering how to go about the reverse cowgirl, we?re here to get you going. Reverse cowgirl is exactly what its name suggests: simply put it?s your ?girl on top? missionary, with you spun around. Have your man lay down on his back and insert his penis into you with your back towards his face giving him a full view of that behind.
From here, you may choose to bounce up and down rapidly. However, it?s rarely pleasurable for the girl or leans forward *as if in doggy style* and thrust against his penis going crazy pumping in. Other variations include leaning back and grinding which provides a lot of sensation, or having your man sit up as you mount him.
This can be totally hot, or sexy as hell, it all depends on you!
Although reverse cowgirl does come with its set of pros and cons!
Pros and cons of reverse cowgirl
Have you or your partner expressed a shy and closed attitude when it comes to getting down and dirty in reverse? Your reservations may be there for a reason. Before learning the tips and tricks, first let?s look at the pros and cons that may have you excited, yet hesitant about the prospect of reverse cowgirl sex.
Pros
#1 Great control for the ladies
Women love to be on top mostly because they get to control the speed, depth, and get a perfect angle of penetration. This is a big deal when it comes to reaching that big O right!
If your man is a butt guy which I?m sure every guy is, he?s going to absolutely love the view he gets from reverse cowgirl and will be a huge pro for him.
Whether it?s you or your man, reverse cowgirl position leaves both of your hands-frees to do a little bit of fondling hence a pro. He can reach forward and tease your clit and you can reach down and play with his balls. Definitely a fun position for those roaming hands if you can?t decide on what to do.
Cons
Some men are scared of the reverse cowgirl position since it is one of the easiest sex positions to have crazy ?accidents? while doing it.
Accidents like, If your man slips out of your vagina and you bust down hard, but miss his tool, this can break it.
So much so rendering it ?out of commission? for several months. Definitely not a sexy experience to have, not now, not ever.
#2 Squats suck, especially when you?re trying to come
Girl on top sex positions are a massive workout, and reverse cowgirl is no exception! Squatting over and over to get the rhythm just right can prove exhausting but at the same time burn calories.
Depending on your man?s penis shape, length and angle, having his member hit up against the reverse walls of your vagina can actually prove painful and last for a long time.
Angles aren?t just a reverse cowgirl problem for your man alone! Since your lover?s penis isn?t exactly facing your g-spot, the angle of his penis may actually make you feel more like you have to poop than have an orgasm. Gross, but it?s fully true!
Reverse cowgirl tips and tricks for better sex
#1 Look it up
Reverse cowgirl may seem fun and exciting but may get kinda confusing when things aren?t fully fitting together the way you?re used to them fitting. Help yourself out in this uncomfortable start by becoming familiar with the position beforehand.
Since X-rated movies are incredibly fake, especially when it comes to positions, porn isn?t going to be your best friend for figuring the pros and cons of this reverse cowgirl out. Instead, try looking at visual aids in photos or YouTube videos that show you exactly how to go about the position. This will give you way more confidence going in and help you through the process.
#2 Relax and have fun
The #1 thing that will ruin any great sex session is overthinking or feeling tense while not enjoying the moment. In order to let loose and feel good about your new position, you?re going to need to relax. Make sure you?ve already had a fun round of foreplay before hopping on top so it gets easier. Essentially because you?re going to want to be wet and ready beforehand rather than it hurting later.
#3 Avoid exhaustion!
To avoid being overworked and tap out mid-session, be sure that reverse cowgirl is mixed with another favorite sex position for avoiding the cons. Take control and have your man enter you doggy style and then, switch into reverse cowgirl for the grand finale. You could also take turns while grinding against him, and then having him take charge and thrust into you.
#4 Ride shallow
As previously stated, one reason men get nervous about reverse cowgirl is that so many penises have been harmed by this scandalous position in the past! If your man fears the breaking of his favorite body part, try doing shallow slow thrusting.
This will feel great for both of you, by making it a long session, and ensuring him an intact penis by the end of your orgasm!
#5 Do whatever feels right
There is no strict way to follow when it comes to doing reverse cowgirl ?right,? nor does sex have to look a certain way to feel great or amazing. Basically, do whatever feels good to you! If you love to bounce on your man?s member, have at it! Grinding against him can be a better option, or prefer to hold yourself up while your man thrusts into you, that?s what you should do.
If you tried the reverse cowgirl position in the past and felt more bleh than ?on board,? we urge you to give it another chance keeping the pros and cons in mind. With any luck, it may be your new go-to position.
Follow our tips on how to do reverse cowgirl and rule his world!
Originally published at https://www.dkoding.in on October 9, 2019.
