Two men at once is an amazing sensation
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When James and I decided to open up our relationship to other lovers about 5 years ago, we agreed to only see other people together. That means primarily threesomes and foursomes. We once did the big group sex thing with 7, but that wasn?t really to our taste. We both prefer more intimacy and connection, and James and I agree that three, either with a man or a woman, is our ideal number for supramarital sex.
Even before James was interested in having any kind of sexual contact with a man, he thought that the idea of MFM was really exciting. I was glad to hear it, because wanting to explore that is what prompted me to first bring up the subject of opening up in the first place. I wasn?t immediately thinking about DP, as double penetration is typically known, but after a new friend told me about how she?d finally gotten to try it, and really liked it, I thought I would too. I?d been really happy in my relationship with James, but now I wanted to sample all that this new sexual horizon had to offer.
Whether you are doing double Ps in V or one in the front door and one in the back, DP is a sensory smorgasbord and it?s one of my new favorite things for that reason. But, it turns out that DP is not nearly as easy to do as it appears to be in porn. It took us 5 years of trying and 5 different partners before we were finally able to make it work. It was worth the wait though because it is a sexual experience like no other.
James is all about research and learning from the experts. I think that is one of the reasons why he is such a good lover. Once we decided that we wanted to try DP, he not only analyzed a bunch of videos but also read up on positions and techniques. The fact that our current lover, Lane, had done DP before also helped immensely in us being successful.
One of the most recommended positions is one guy laying on his back on the edge of the bed with his feet on the floor. The woman then straddles him, either facing him, or reverse cowgirl, and the second guy then enters her. I?ve seen it done reverse cowgirl in porn, but actually trying to sit like that and then lean back was something I found to be too awkward to be sustainable.
If the woman straddles the bottom man while facing him, it will work for anal/vaginal penetration, but we could never make it work for getting two cocks into one pussy for more than about 3 seconds. The second guy would tend to push the first guy out once you started moving.
And that was if the second guy could get in at all, or if the first guy could stay hard enough while he was getting situated. If you?re with men who can really maintain an erection and who aren?t cooled off at the thought of touching another man, you?re going to be better off. This is also definitely a situation where length is an advantage.
In his research James had read about a position where the men each lay down opposite each other in a kind of leg scissor so that their dicks were together, allowing the woman to sit down on both together. We contemplated trying this but it also seemed completely unwieldy and impractical so we ultimately didn?t try it.
What finally worked was for me to straddle James as he lay on his back in the middle of the bed, rather than at the edge. Lane kneeled behind me and was then able to enter my pussy also, and we could begin moving. There was an initial sensation of being really stretched, but it almost immediately transformed into a feeling a just being very full, as if one really thick dick was inside me.
?What?s it feel like to you guys?? I queried as we were starting to really get the hang of it.
?Like there?s two dicks in there,? said Lane, and I didn?t press him for more because I really just wanted to enjoy the sensation. Besides the way that it feels, there is the sheer mental turn-on of realizing that you?re fucking two men at once. I was also really excited to watch James? face as we moved because it clearly felt really good to him too.
Midlife does a lot of unpleasant things to many women?s sexual functions, but for me, it?s been just the opposite. Rather than having less libido and natural lubrication, I actually have more than I used to. I was so gushy wet and slippery that in between that and all the other sensations, James was really being stimulated. In fact, the reason that we stopped was that James was about to come, and when we play with someone else, he doesn?t come inside of me.
When I asked him the next day what it felt like, he echoed what Lane had said, but further clarified that because there is more in there, it makes the vagina feel tighter. Also, the hardness of the other man provides additional friction. It takes a little bit to get everyone moving together but the guy who isn?t on the bottom has the most leverage, so he is the one who mostly directs the action. The woman has some leverage and can push back into him or otherwise participate in the pace and speed. The man on the bottom is pretty much at their mercy, but as James experienced, that really wasn?t a problem for him at all.
After that, I was anxious to do anal/vaginal DP next, but I find that anal sex is always much more enjoyable and comfortable for me after I?ve had an orgasm, so the guys went to work, helping me in that department. That?s another instance where it?s fun to have multiple sets of hands and mouths.
When I was ready, I again had James lay on his back in the middle of the bed and I straddled him, facing his head. Lane had no problem with getting in my ass in that position, and we fucked like that for a long time, until my legs began to cramp up and I needed to switch positions.
Having cocks inside your ass and your pussy at the same time is also a feeling of fullness, but of a slightly different nature. It?s difficult to put into words because I was so caught up in the sensations that I wasn?t thinking at the time about how to describe them. There?s just a sense of decadent abundance, which is also magnified by the mental turn-on of thinking about what you are doing.
There are a lot of nerve endings in the anus and it can be another way that the G-spot gets stimulated. However, there is no natural lubrication as there is in the vagina, so whether playing with a man or a toy, be sure to start slowly, keep in good communication, and use lots of lube.
And besides being filled and fucked, the greater skin contact and extra pair of hands are also very nice. I could kiss and touch/be touched by the man on the bottom, while the man behind was grabbing my hips and ass. It really is a kind of sensation overload, but one that I highly recommend.
A lot of MFM in porn, including DP, shows the woman essentially servicing two men at once. That?s not a dynamic that interests me. I want to be a part of a mutually gratifying and enjoyable experience and although it took until fairly recently to get DP of both types working reliably, the men who helped us try were of the right sort.
One of the other important things that I learned in that 5-year journey is not to make any destination more important than the experience. I really wanted to experience DP and I was fortunate enough to find several guys who were willing to give it a go. But when we discovered that we couldn?t really get it working after a couple of tries, we moved on to something else.
Having a fun and pleasurable experience together was more important than honing in on one move and obsessing about it until there was no heat left in the moment. However, DP does feel amazing, and I?m excited that we?re seeing someone we can do it with.
